1 00:00:02,810 --> 00:00:08,550 Cian McLoughlin is the CEO of Trinity Perspectives and he's the author of the 2 00:00:08,550 --> 00:00:13,980 book 'Rebirth of the Salesman'. What are the traits of the most successful 3 00:00:13,980 --> 00:00:17,400 sellers that you see out there? Emotional intelligence or empathy, I mean the 4 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:21,000 two are sort of inextricably linked. People love to talk to someone else 5 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,269 that's interested in them. One of the other things you need to do, and you all 6 00:00:24,269 --> 00:00:27,539 need to do this every single time you meet with a customer, is answer the 7 00:00:27,539 --> 00:00:31,920 'So What' question. So you talk about something and if in their heads they're 8 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:36,480 thinking 'so what', then you haven't done the job of contextualizing what it is 9 00:00:36,480 --> 00:00:39,329 that you're saying. And that's a really important point as well in terms of your 10 00:00:39,329 --> 00:00:43,829 ability to stand up in front of one or more people and have a conversation, and 11 00:00:43,829 --> 00:00:47,730 feel that you've got the credibility and the authority to do that. 12 00:00:47,730 --> 00:00:51,420 Because if they can say something to you and then you can give them an answer, 13 00:00:51,420 --> 00:00:55,850 which relates to not just your product but their business and their industry, 14 00:00:55,850 --> 00:00:59,579 now they're ready to listen to you because now you're actually adding value 15 00:00:59,579 --> 00:01:02,910 as distinct from just giving them something they could access over the web. 16 00:01:02,910 --> 00:01:06,360 You know a solution is only a solution when we understand the problem, but we 17 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,909 often go in and say "can we talk about our solution" and they're like "should we talk 18 00:01:08,909 --> 00:01:11,850 about our problem or do you want to go straight to your solution?" Which is crazy, 19 00:01:11,850 --> 00:01:14,820 but as an industry again that's something we do. We move straight into 20 00:01:14,820 --> 00:01:21,049 solution mode. We move straight into the how before we understand the why.